Help with a girl

Arcane WIzard · Post by **Arcane WIzard** » Fri 15 Sep, 2006 3:15 pm

chickendude wrote:I think most girls realize that it's awkward on a guy.

Which they may use in their advantage to test you. Be observant enough to respond attractively.

Post by **tr1p1ea** » Fri 15 Sep, 2006 3:25 pm

Exactly, one thing to remember isthat she is 'just a girl', she is a person. There are people in your life which whom you are able to communicate normally with right? Why should she be any different?

Once you are confident enough to talk to anyone (regardless of sex, age etc), life becomes easier. Just be courteous, introduce yourself, ask her and always leave on a good note, regardless of the outcome. Even if all she takes away from it is that you're a nice guy, thats gott be good right?

Shadow Phoenix · Post by **Shadow Phoenix** » Fri 15 Sep, 2006 3:59 pm

1. She is a person, NOT A THING. Therefore DO NOT make assumptions. ASS-U-Mptions are bad.

2. Therefore, try what you think she will like.

3. Confusing a girl is a good idea. So, if you start off with a random subject and jump to asking her out, that will probably work. Also, the longer you talk to her the less chances are that she will slam you down.

4. Do NOT become too emotionally attached to her. That will be really bad. Just trust me.... if anything happens then you will be a wreck for a few weeks.

gangsta · Post by **gangsta** » Sat 16 Sep, 2006 2:32 pm

yeah, thanks guys. I went with the "direct" approach, and just asked her, but she said she had said she would go as a group. We're still friends, though...

Arcane WIzard · Post by **Arcane WIzard** » Sat 16 Sep, 2006 4:46 pm

Tag along, or just bump into them there?

gangsta · Post by **gangsta** » Sat 16 Sep, 2006 6:38 pm

tag along. i guess...

Post by **tr1p1ea** » Sun 17 Sep, 2006 12:36 am

Aye, bad luck ... you cant win em all. Still if you all go as a group, that doesnt mean you cant hook up later

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leofox · Post by **leofox** » Sun 17 Sep, 2006 8:33 am

threefingeredguy wrote:Tell her you asked for help on programming website.

Do a barrel roll

threefingeredguy · Post by **threefingeredguy** » Sun 17 Sep, 2006 11:17 am

leofox wrote:
threefingeredguy wrote:Tell her you asked for help on programming website.
Do a barrel roll

Haha, I should have said remembered to say that.

Post by **Patori** » Mon 18 Sep, 2006 1:52 pm

threefingeredguy wrote:Tell her you asked for help on a calculator programming website.

Somehow I don't think that helps.

Just be natural, calm, talk about somethings.... and ask.

King Harold · Post by **King Harold** » Mon 18 Sep, 2006 3:51 pm

Patori is right you know

and usually i take a bar of chocolate, it seems to help, why do girls like chocolate that much anyway.. make sure she doesnt feel "bought" though. (so eat part of it yourself first and then offer a bit.. something like that..)

better luck next time

Arcane WIzard · Post by **Arcane WIzard** » Mon 18 Sep, 2006 4:06 pm

Lot's of bling bling also helps.

chickendude · Post by **chickendude** » Mon 18 Sep, 2006 5:18 pm

Or a big dong.

Shadow Phoenix · Post by **Shadow Phoenix** » Mon 18 Sep, 2006 11:45 pm

King Harold wrote:Patori is right you know

and usually i take a bar of chocolate, it seems to help, why do girls like chocolate that much anyway.. make sure she doesnt feel "bought" though. (so eat part of it yourself first and then offer a bit.. something like that..)

better luck next time

Chocolate makes endorphins ( I think, not sure on exact) being released which seems to act differently on guys and girls.

Btw, Girls have a bigger FSB on left Right hemisphere, but less clock speed overall. (Intel Vs AMD

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Shawshank87 · Post by **Shawshank87** » Tue 19 Sep, 2006 3:47 am

Guys, I'm not going to lie, this is one of the funniest things I've read on this site in the last year or so. Props to you gangsta for having the courage to ask the chick, but next time, you might just want to slip her a roofie. (just kidding)