What to talk to a girl about?

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What to talk to a girl about?

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What do girls generaly talk about when they are bored? They are not interested in AMD fighting against AMD or NVidia vs ATI, or AMD + ATI, or Dell +AMD, or any of the above.
Neither do they play soccer,tennis, or chess.

So, what do girls talk about and what can a guy talk to a girl about?
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Um, it's pretty dumb to assume girls all talk about the same thing. My girlfriend likes video games, but it would be dumb to imagine that all girls do. Find out what she likes.
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People can be different, they may like sports (yes, girls too).
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They all talk about people they know. Friends, relations, collegues, etc. All of them.
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Arcane WIzard wrote:They all talk about people they know. Friends, relations, collegues, etc. All of them.
So does every human being. What's your point? :?
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His point is that they just talk about everything.
Which makes this topic irrelevant.
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kv83 wrote:
Arcane WIzard wrote:They all talk about people they know. Friends, relations, collegues, etc. All of them.
So does every human being. What's your point? :?
My point is that they all talk about relations.

Further more:

Music, nature, pets. Avoid politics.

Find common interests so you actually have something to say. It doesn't really matter what you talk about, more how you talk about it.

But to start with, talk about who she is.
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Arcane WIzard wrote:Avoid politics.
Why am I reminded of the Harry Enfield and chums 'Mr Cholmondley-Warner's Public Information Film'? :P "Women! Know your limits!"
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Talk about breakfast.
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Arcane WIzard wrote:Talk about breakfast.
Hey, that actually worked. :P
That topic slowly evolved into who is making dinner in the family (she does) and then somehow into why some guys pretend to be gay. :roll: Then we started arguing over their marriages.
Find common interests so you actually have something to say. It doesn't really matter what you talk about, more how you talk about it.
The problem is, we dont have any common grounds. I got a job, and the rest of time I try to spend outside to compensate, while she stays inside 24/7 reading books.
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I know a girl I've had some long conversations about spirituality with, if she reads books then she sounds like quite a thinker so spiritual stuff might be something.

What are the books about?

Also, drinks are an awesome topic if you know some and have some stories involving them.

Maybe what you've done outside, if it's exciting.
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Talk about how awesome MaxCoderz is!
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Her eyes.
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some reason, i was reminded of an episode of "Yes, Prime Minister"...talk to girls how you would a guy, except keep in mind that not everyone is like us and interested in technology and programming. usually, girls are no different than guys. If you're unsure of what to talk about, mention a few subjects like, "So, what kind of music do you like?" or something. Before you know what her views are on religion and/or politics, avoid saying something that may turn her off the conversation. Be sure she hates Bush before you say "Jeez, i hate george bush.."
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Loki wrote:some reason, i was reminded of an episode of "Yes, Prime Minister"...talk to girls how you would a guy, except keep in mind that not everyone is like us and interested in technology and programming. usually, girls are no different than guys. If you're unsure of what to talk about, mention a few subjects like, "So, what kind of music do you like?" or something. Before you know what her views are on religion and/or politics, avoid saying something that may turn her off the conversation. Be sure she hates Bush before you say "Jeez, i hate george bush.."
I covered all of those topics like music/religion(carefully)/governemt like a long time ago :(

The second problem is that 2 month ago I started spending less time inside and more time outside. And she just stays inside and reads fiction...(not even science fiction)
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Are there any other topics girls are interested in?
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